Modern human being is a progressive creature that never stops and can’t imagine their life without constant development. Some people just chase riches after material possessions, seek fame and believe that only money makes the world go round; others dedicate the best and the most productive time of their lives to education. Although money and knowledge are the keys that unlock almost all doors, sometimes it’s not enough. Unfortunately, it often happens that rich people of great erudition can’t make use of their knowledge and status in this harsh and complicated world
Why does it happen? First of all, it’s a problem of
mentally weak personalities who lack inner power and don’t know how to keep the wool on when dealing with difficult life situations. Money and erudition can fade away over time, but mental power and emotional stability will always remain in your mind, because these qualities are like an inner anchor.
If you’re extremely vulnerable, sensitive person and
you’re sick and tired of being a slave of your mind, you should open yourself up to new experiences and turn into a strong and confident personality. I understand that this task may seem impossible to you, but it’s high time to get all your strength together and take the first confident step in the pursuit of personal growth.
1. Form your own point of view
Point of view is a unique thing given to every person in the world. However, not every one is emotionally strong enough to uphold their opinion and convictions regardless of everything. But it doesn’t mean you should stick definitely to your guns and pay no attention to other people’s pieces of advice and opinions. If you want to be highly successful, you should develop the skill of exhibiting flexibility and exercising much forbearance in communication with people you love, respect or just cooperate with.
Excessive straightforwardness and uncompromising
attitude will make you emotionally stronger, but
significantly limit your development and drive you into a standstill one day. As soon as you form your own point of view, learn to respect your choice and close your eyes to either well-founded or ungrounded social criticism, you’ll feel inner power and confidence running through your veins and realize that you’re a self-sufficient person who’ll never keep the profile low again.
Furthermore, you’ll become more popular among
others, because people usually treat mentally strong
individualities, which don’t depend on social opinions, have their own standards, values and vision of the world, with respect.
2. Develop a sense of humor
It may sound strange, but a sense of humor is an
essential part of your emotional stability and well-being. It doesn’t matter whether you’re a top manager or a florist, you should know how to relax and blow off steam from time to time. Otherwise, your mind will never reach emotional stability.
The best and the cheapest way to boost your mental
power and shield yourself from everyday stress and
conflicts is humor. A suitable joke and either frank or even artificial smile can repulse somebody’s emotional attacks in a fitting manner. This way, you’ll come out with clean hands and nonplus an aggressive person in a twinkling of an eye. I try to joke as much as possible, especially at work. It’s my perfect shield that helps me deal with everyday negativity with a head held high.
3. Be ready to look silly
There’s a stereotype that people who do silly and unusual things are failures and buffoons. I believe that the ones who can easily leave the comfort zone, adapt to new conditions and don’t fear to do things they like in front of other people’s eyes are the happiest personalities in the world.
These people may not be always emotionally stable, but I can state with a$$urance that they’re mentally strong and brave, because they’ve already escaped from the prison of the mind. If you also want to wave goodbye to your comfort zone, you should realize and accept that even highly successful.
SOURCE: www.gltrends.com
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